The Essence
The essence of the nondual path is a non-path. The truth is always found at the centre of the paradox. When we embrace the whole spectrum, the axis of illusion cracks and a “new” space appears. This space is a new creative realm where “problems” often find their own solutions.
My humble re-evolution is about bringing the nondual space and practice into modern life: your relationships, parenthood, and personal creation space - allowing it to embrace every corner of your mind and body and every perceived aspect of your life. It is about losing our learned automatic set-points and patterns and re-discovering the natural ease of being and becoming in flow!
Sometimes, in theory, we find the nondual perspective charming to our hearts. Yet, as soon as we meet the areas of life that feel challenging (a child whining, plans falling apart, financial hardships), we step aside and choose to keep “balancing” on the axis of duality: picking sides, choosing to fight, dwelling in victimhood, and communicating polarity.
Therefore, the nondual re-evolution is an honest and practical devotion to the present moment: a brave, spontaneous, and acceptance filled way of life, where the human being is the meeting place of heaven and earth. We are casting all dogmas, limits and judgments aside, embracing divinity, individuality and oneness while respecting the process. In a very…very practical real life way.
Frequent Questions
Is nonduality in practice about doing nothing and not having an opinion?
Sometimes it is, and sometimes it is not. Living in the nondual space means connecting in an aware way with everything that is currently in your awareness. The response to a situation or an answer to a question in this space is always very spontaneous and presence-based. One can say that the communication and actions are received or guided, but what is essential is that they are not based on your personal and tilted history, and they are not planned out. They feel creative and FRESH!
Of course, we can always have plans, and structure is something I sincerely recommend in healing modalities and life, and yet each moment and its flow stems from something much greater. It is about connecting the structure and the flow. It is one and the other — a paradox. No matter the situation or case, though, a nondual practitioner answers the situation in a way that clicks in her heart. Therefore, it is of the greatest benefit and brings extraordinary relaxation and ease, even if it doesn't seem so in the first place. It can be very subtle. The words and actions often may not seem logical or fitting, yet they bring great calmness and resolution, a motion that frees the energy.
Most of us are not always in the nondual space and are still learning. What is essential is how we take responsibility for our own experience and life. It is a commitment and a devotion that can't be undone.